Richard A. Abend, a true gentleman, devoted husband, loving father and amazing grandfather, passed away on Thursday, March 17, 2016. He was born March 6, 1935, in Dayton, Ohio, to Florence and Sam Abend. He moved to Utica when he was 4 years old. Growing up he loved spending every summer with his cousins in Cincinnati, Ohio. Dick was educated in Utica schools and graduated from Syracuse University. He received his Law degree from Cornell University and a Master's of International Law from Georgetown University, and was published twice for contributions to the Law Review. He became an Assistant Attorney General for Gov. Nelson Rockefeller. He then took a position as Chief Counsel for United States Senator Kenneth Keating. Mr. Abend later returned to Utica to become President and Legal Counsel to the Boston Stores (Interstate Corporation). He adored working side by side with his best friend, his Dad. Dick treasured his Boston Store family and the memories he made with them. He was recognized by many community organizations for his dedication to charitable causes, including being appointed to the National Boards for both Multiple Sclerosis and Muscular Dystrophy, and being named "Man of the Year". Above all else, Dick's true legacy lies within his many close relationships with each and every family member. The little things he did for so many people every day, whether it was a card, a kind word, or a small gift. He did so much for more people, without looking for recognition. Dick treated all people with respect. He was married for 47 years to his "bride" Joan Davidson Abend. He leaves behind two daughters, who could not have adored him more, Jennifer (Abend) Ward and Andrew of New Hartford and Meredith (Abend) Weiner and Sam of Brentwood, CA; along with his grandchildren, Sam, Eli, Benjamin, Griffin and Annie; and many other cherished family members and friends. He was an extremely brilliant and humble man who had great passion for politics, the Arts, sports, the Red Sox, the Miami Dolphins, James Bond and especially sunshine. Many often saw him driving his convertible with his face up to the sky. The funeral will be Monday at 12 pm at Temple Emanu-El, 2710 Genesee Street, Utica with Rabbi Cassi Kail and Rabbi Henry Bamberger officiating. Interment will follow in Crown Hill Memorial Park, Clinton. A calling hour will precede the service from 11-12 at the Temple. Shiva will be observed Monday from 6-8 pm at the home of Jennifer and Drew Ward, 116 Gilbert Road, New Hartford. Richard wanted donations in his honor to be sent to Pacific Point Academy, 2701 Ocean Park Boulevard, Suite 150, Santa Monica, CA 90405, a school for children with learning differences, where his grandson Ben is thriving. If so desired you may consider the American Heart Association or a charity of your choice as well. Arrangements are with the Bentz Funeral Service, Inc., New Hartford.